Collector, Hoarder or Stuck in Childhood?

Today's guest post is from friend-of-the-podcast, Jeff Jobb.  Jeff lives in Canada and is an avid sci-fi and Champ car racing fan, and is passionate about collecting.  In his post below, Jeff shares what got him starting in the collecting world, the motivation behind it, the appeal it holds for him and others, his views on the collecting community, and why a man in his 40s would want so many toys.

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When Jen asked me to be a guest blogger on the Anomaly blog, I was excited to say the least. But then it hit me, what do I write about? I have a passion for a lot of things in the genre and a long history being a fan of Star Wars and Star Trek, but what should I write about? I went back and forth on it for a few weeks, but in the end, I thought I would write about what keeps me drawn to the genre the most: Collecting.

I feel like a bit of an Anomaly in that I am a man in my early 40s that has a fascination with toys and action figures. I look at my nephew who is 12, still a kid, and he moved past toys a long time back. But here I am, years past my own childhood, still rooted in toys. So I thought it would make a good blog to talk about a few reasons why a person might collect toys and collectibles and the appeal of it.

My introduction to this whole genre was like a lot of others from my generation, and that was Star Wars. When it came out in 1977, it really did change my life. I recall seeing the movie for the first time and being blown away by it, never having seen anything like it before. All I could think of for quite some time was Star Wars. When I look back to my childhood, I really only have a few vague recollections of my life before Star Wars, but a lot after Star Wars. Star Wars led to Star Trek when I was a bit older, and into other spaceship sci-fi such as Battlestar Galactica. I am a fan of a lot of genre shows, but my strongest ties are always towards the spaceship/starship based shows and movies.

When I was a kid, I was immediately excited when I saw that they had come out with Star Wars toys. They monopolized many birthday and Christmas lists for years to come. But, my family was not wealthy - my parents were starting out with 3 kids, with only one parent working. So that meant that there was not a lot of money to go around. We were not poor, but definitely had to live on a budget; Some of the luxuries that others had, we did not. So for me, a lot of those wants and wishes on my lists were not possible to fill. I did get some Star Wars figures, and had quite a few over the years, but had to be content with a Landspeeder and the Creature Cantina for larger toys. My Han and Chewie had to make due with traveling around in a black Tonka van instead of the sweet ride in the Millennium Falcon.

I think that might be where my love affair with toys started. When I was a kid growing up in the 70s and early 80s, we did not have DVDs, Blu-Rays and streaming media that allowed us to see all the movies over and over. For years, my connection to the Star Wars movies was through the toys. I would reenact scenes from the movies with the figures, and also make up my own. Later on, things like VHS and Beta-Max came out, but still the Star Wars movies were not widely available on them for some time. So they toys and my imagination had to do. It has led me to speculate a bit if that might be the reason that toys do not seem as popular with kids these days - as the movies are much more accessible, and they can relive them practically whenever they want.

After going through my high school and college years and getting my first job, I started getting back into collecting. At the time, I figured that maybe I was making up for not having these toys as a child, and now that I had some money of my own, I could get the things I wanted as a child. My family and friends thought I was a bit strange to be wanting toys and, to be honest, I felt a bit awkward about it myself. But it has been nearly 20 years now, and even though my tastes have changed a bit, I am still at it.


I have thought about why people collect. I think maybe the main reason is that collectors have nostalgia for what they collect. It might bring them back to a time when they were kids, or even just a thoughts and feelings about the movie or series. Also, the thrill of the hunt is a reason to collect. I look back to when I started collecting and remember all the toy runs I would go on. They were a lot of fun, to travel around town to different stores, looking for that elusive, hard-to-find figure. I guess another thing is that some of the pieces are just really cool and look great, and everyone likes to have nice things around them.

At times I struggle with collecting, in how I view it. Am I really just a hoarder with nicer stuff? Why do I have some many nice things that are not necessities in life, but others in this world do not even have a roof over their head and a steady meal? I get feelings of guilt from time to time about collecting, or where I might be in life if I did not spend the money on these items.

But, I found that there are other fun elements of collecting that I never really thought would exist. Over the years, I have found that collecting is quite a social hobby. You would think that a person would be locked away down in their basement, in a solitary pursuit of the next find. But I have met a lot of people through the hobby that I might never have. In the past, I would bump into people on toy runs and then get to know others in the collecting community. The internet and forums bring people together, and they help each other out in finding some of the toys and collectibles. In the past I have acquired things through trading with others, and it turned out to be a lot of fun.

Also, as I have gotten older, my collecting tastes have changed, where I have sold off parts of my collection. I usually sell at a toy show each year, and I think I take as much pleasure selling some of the things I have collected over the years as I do in actually owning them. Maybe it is the thrill of the hunt in finding a piece that can excite, and then finding that person who might value it more than I do and selling it to them.

I will be back from time to time to talk about some different collectibles that I have or other thoughts about the genre. I would like to thank Jen and Angela for giving me a chance to be a guest blogger on the Anomaly Blog.

Jeff Jobb
Anomalous Guest Author
What's on Jeff's Mind? / @JediJeff
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The Hunger Games - Perspectives from a Parent

I'm Sue, co-host of Anomaly Supplemental and Anomalous Musings writer and editor.  The latest installment of Anomaly is a roundtable discussion of Suzanne Collins's The Hunger Games (book and film).  It was the first time that our entire staff - co-host and staff writer alike - was able to join in a discussion.  The opinions were varied, but everyone had something constructive to add.  You can find the show notes, steaming audio, download, and subscription links here.  Thank you, as always, for listening and reading.

A few weeks ago, Jen invited Australian writer and podcaster Stefan Sawynok, who also happens to be a friend of our show and a father to three Anomalies, to write a guest post for Anomalous Musings.  A week later, he sent his review of The Hunger Games, and we decided to hold on to it until our roundtable episode was released.  In his post below, he not only gives his personal thoughts on the movie, but also the reactions of his three young daughters.

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My name is Stefan and I am the father to three Anomalies, I work with an artist Anomaly and I write about Anomalies. So I hope that by some process of alien DNA replication, that makes me an [honorary] Anomaly. This year has been a strange and challenging one for me. On a personal level, it’s been pretty much as hard a time as I have faced in many years, and that has flowed on to work and creative activities to create new stresses. However, every cloud has a silver lining and if there is one for me it has been the way in which I have been reminded that the eyes of children and teens see things differently than mine - and that, as a parent, is easy to forget.

I was first reminded of this when I took my three Anomalies (Phoenix, Raven and Kiarra) to the Doctor Who spectacular, which is a live performance of the music from Doctor Who, and the experience led me to take far more notice of the way my children react to things - not that I have ever been a hands-off parent, but when you are busy with life as an income earner, parent, and writer, it’s easy to overlook some details.

Enter The Hunger Games. Now, for those who haven’t seen this you can breathe a sigh of relief: There are no spoilers here. For those who don’t know, The Hunger Games is a series of novels set in the not-too-distant future in North America, after what I can presume is a second Civil War. In this case, the victors choose to keep control by forcing each of the remaining cities, referred to as “districts,” to hand over two children to participate in a death match tournament with only one survivor.

So, knowing that in advance (I was forewarned by Phoenix), I took my girls to see it at a late-night session. For the record, Phoenix is 17, Raven is 14, and Kiarra is 12. This movie is rated “M” (15+) and I thought more than twice about taking both Raven and Kiarra. Raven, I allowed on the grounds that, of the three, she has the most sense of when to look away and can see the rights and wrongs of things. Kiarra is an older 12-year-old who has already experienced the “arena” first hand at karate tournaments where there have been parents yelling stupid things like “Kill them!” or “Smash them!”. In other words, she knows as well as anyone what adults can do to their children.

Having said that, I am really of two minds as to the wisdom of it. I am not a soft parent. I do not shield my children from much because I want them to learn not to be afraid of the world but not to be blind to what it can be. They have seen violent films and, let’s face it, Harry Potter is violent, but we talk about it. It’s not seen as entertainment; We discuss what happens and how we feel about it. This movie, however, pushed that to an extreme.

Phoenix, as the oldest, has read the book series and knew what was coming. She has her own views on it and identifies with the lead character, Katniss, a young woman navigating a horrible world and trying to both survive and bring about change. She sees what is happening as wrong, but is more focused on the personal story of Katniss than the big picture.

Raven is the same, to a degree - she identifies with the lead character but sees the wrong over the personal circumstance. Like me, she was not okay with kids killing each other and was really put off by it. On the flip side, she said it was a really good movie because it showed that kids can survive even in a world where the adults have lost the plot.

Kiarra also identified with the lead character but, as someone who has been in an arena fight of sorts, was busy strategizing how the kids could survive and was concerned that no one had a defense against weapons or used unarmed combat techniques. That’s the karate training kicking in. In other words, of the four of us, I think she got what it was like for the kids in the arena, and she has the strongest survival instincts. She didn’t see a problem so much with the depiction of the adults other than her strong belief that they should be taken down.

None of them questioned how the world got that way. They saw the struggle and, each in their own way, identified with the desperation of the kids involved. I was the opposite. I was sitting there the whole time thinking, “How the hell could humans ever be like this?”

Now, I haven’t read the books, but this is one of those rare instances where, having seen a movie, I have to read the books. I need to know why - why, after 2000 years of learning - would anybody choose this way to keep control? There is a part of me that is hoping that, within the book, I can find that flaw, that reason that says, “No way, this can never ever happen, we are bigger than this.”

Then I turned on my twitter feed for The Hunger Games and saw words like “cool” and “awesome” and my heart sank a little. This movie places the audience in the position of those in the Capital, watching the violence from a safe distance and cheering on the combatants. What I will say is that, during the movie, there was not a sound in the audience - a mark of the fact that the filmmakers give you little to cheer about. So, I am hoping that by “cool” and “awesome”, they meant “great cinematography.”

Here is my quandary: If the movie depicted 24 adults chucked into an arena, I would be okay with it - no problem at all. Here, however, it’s 24 children. For me, that’s a step too far. I think that, beneath the movie, there is a basic human instinct; we like to watch the fight and we like the hope that comes when someone beats the odds. My kids are ok with it because they can put themselves in that situation and see how they would survive. Me, I am thinking about the instances in recent years where kids have killed at schools or similar, and the devastation that creates in a community. The idea that kids would kill each other for anyone’s entertainment is pretty hard to stomach.

It’s a fine line. For example, if two of the kids in the movie had a graphic sex scene, there would be uproar. Our reaction is horror and grief of the highest magnitude. Yet in that instance, no one dies. And kids have been having sex unbeknownst to their parents forever, even at inappropriate ages. Kids killing each other doesn’t happen as often, thankfully. In this movie, kids kill each other graphically and, be in no doubt, there is no shying away from the violence. And when we use words like “awesome,” I have a problem with that as a double standard. I will say the movie is brilliant, but not “cool” or “awesome.”

It’s not meant to be. Moralizing over, I do not expect anyone, let alone everyone, to share my views. Let me be clear, this is a BRILLIANT film, executed expertly with the best performances Woody Harrelson and Donald Sutherland have given in a long, long time. There is no mustache twirling here - the evil that is portrayed is very believable. The movie does not, in any way, glorify violence or try to justify it. Even as I found it horrible, the fact is that my hat goes off to the filmmakers - they did an unbelievable job making this. Also, I am okay with the marketing of this film, though I think that they could have been more upfront with the violence, although their trailer makes it pretty clear that kids will die.

All I ask is this: Please, if you go to watch this film, don’t be part of the audience that says, “It’s not real, so I am off the hook.” The fact is that, somewhere in the world, the carnage of the arena is happening in some form. You should have a strong opinion on it, even if you don’t agree with me. This is not a film where the filmmakers walk away from the subject, nor should we.

Finally, if your kids younger than 18 are going to see it, go with them, please, even if that’s not “cool.” On the way home, we had a vibrant discussion with all opinions welcome. It was educational for them and for me. I allowed them to form their own opinions and they know mine. In fact, we are about to podcast about it and, if you want to hear what they thought, you can check out the latest Highway to Mars podcast. I will try to pick a lighter topic for my next posting, the girls and I are going to watch Flash Gordon this week, so I am suspecting there might be more giggles involved.

Martian Out.

Stefan Sawynok
Anomalous Guest Author
Martian Creative
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